Choosing a Preschool
Step 1: Ask around
Other parents in your area with older children can give you advice about good preschools in your area but bear in mind that everyone has different values. Ask people who have values similar to your own and also ask early services staff working with your child. It is best to stay in your local community so that friends are nearby for your child.
Step 2: List preschools in your area from the phone book or internet and call them
There may be preschools in your area that are new or not used by people you have asked. Call these preschools and get some basic information before visiting. If, for example, they are booked up it may not be worth your time to visit. It is a good idea to let the school know that your child has special needs on the phone because if they have a poor attitude towards children with differing needs it is worth knowing now so that you do not waste your time. You do NOT need to be defensive or apologetic about your child’s needs and you do NOT have to listen to someone explain to you why they believe they can not meet special needs. Poor attitudes reflect poor teachers- move on. If you come across this, you can say something polite and assertive like “I am looking to provide my child with socialisation and developmental stimulation, just like for any other child. I am sorry that you feel you can not do this. Thank you for your time.” Do not be anxious, though, this kind of attitude is very much the exception and not the rule. By the same token, you also do NOT need to be grateful when the teacher says your child will be accepted; your child has the same right to be there as any other child. Here are some questions you can ask:
· Do you have a place available?· What are your fees?
· What hours/ days is the service running?· What is the average group size?
· What curriculum do you follow?
· What are your policies/ do you have written info you could send?
Step 3: Visit and interview
When you have narrowed down your list, arrange to visit all the remaining preschools and go prepared with the questions you will ask and what information you are looking for. It is worth visiting to find the best possible fit for your child. You are looking for an environment that will suit your child’s needs so be clear about what those needs are. Good staff will also ask you questions about what you are looking for and what are your child’s needs. Children with Down syndrome vary considerably and they will need to know if there are any particular needs out of the ordinary (e.g. feeding difficulties, medical issues). This is often to make sure that they employ adequate resources and not to make you feel uncomfortable. Start as you mean to go on and have open, honest and positive dialogue. Here are some things to ask about and watch for in your visit:
- Watch the staff interactions with the children. Are they positive and supportive or are they authoritarian? Are the children in control or the staff? Do the children appear comfortable and do they approach staff readily? Do staff interact readily or do they sit back and disengage?
- What is the classroom like? It is warm and inviting? Is it over-stimulating (e.g. too many colours, pictures, clutter)? Is it clean and safe?
Questions you might want to ask:
1. How long has the preschool been in operation?
2. What accreditations do you hold?3. How flexible are you with drop off and pick up times? Do you have an after school service?
4. How often and when do you invoice?5. Do you encourage visits from/ participation of parents?
6. What qualifications does the staff hold?7. How long has the staff been with you?
8. How do you screen staff?9. How are the children grouped?
10. What is the ratio of staff to child?
11. What educational philosophies do you hold? Do you sometimes employ other methods?
12. What is the average day like? Are there extracurricular activities?13. How often do the children watch videos/ TV?
14. What is your discipline policy?15. How often are toys washed/ replaced?
16. Do you have a sign-in and sign-out sheet? How are visitors handled?17. Is snack provided? What foods are chosen?
18. What provision is in place for children who become tired and need rest?19. Is there a ‘settling in’ period? How does it work?
Step 4: Check references
A good preschool will not be insulted by you asking for the names of parents whose children have attended or are attending the service. Ask for names and call the parents to get their view of the service.
Step 5: Kid test
There’s no beating the best test of all- the kid test! Arrange to bring your child for a short visit and see how well it goes. If you feel that your child is happy and the staff are confident and relaxed with your child, then you are probably on to a winner. You know your child best, so go with your ‘gut’ reaction. The staff do not need to know much about Down syndrome, a positive attitude and willingness to learn can be as good as an experienced teacher.
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I would add to find a preschool that is willing to work with not just your child, but with the mom and dad too. I know of a situation where a family was hurt by some of the actions taken by their child's preschool.
Posted on September 10, 2010